Sunriseticklee: My Feelings on Tickling!

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What Is Tickling To Me?

To me tickling is a fun and playful way of showing affection for someone you care about. I know that may sound a bit strange, but it's not as abnormal as one would think. Most of us tickle people from time to time anyway, or you may remember tickling when you played games as a child. For me, its more or less the same thing.

Tickling can be innocent, playful, and fun! However, it can also be seen as erotic and exciting when you are experiencing the touch from someone you are in love with (intimate with). Wow! Love and tickles! Definitely a combination you should try!

Who Do I Generally Tickle?

Everyone!

Let me be more specific. Tickling is fun for me! I've had experiences with people from one-on-one to small groups. I have even attended some gatherings with people who enjoy tickling on the same level as I do. And I have met some really cool people outside of the "community" who love it too! But I have also met some not so cool people, and have had some not so great experiences. Yet, I have never looked at someone and said, "Eww! He's too tall, or too skinny, or too fat, too dark, etc.... to tickle." That's just not me! And that is what I mean by everyone!

I also don't see anything wrong or weird about tickling my younger family and friends. I am well able to separate playful tickling with more of an erotic tickling. I mention that because there are some people who cannot. So just because I tickle my family or friends does NOT mean I am getting all excited, because I assure you that I'm not! Like I mentioned before, I'm a very playful person, and tickling for the most part is ingrained in my playful nature. SO NO... I am not a pedophile! Nor am I am Angelina Jolie-kissing/tickling-my-brother-gal. (She's still hot though!)

When it comes to my other tickle friends who find tickling more of a fetish-type activity, some of them have preferences and even boundaries as to who they will or will not tickle. I think that is perfectly fine! Believe me! Even I have preferences (I LOVE BIG GUYS... mmmmmm!) Some of the most specific boundaries I have when it comes to more intense play involves age and attitude.

I don't play with:

• People who are under the age of 21 (sorry).
• People who want to play only if it involves sexual acts as well.
• People who show a lack of respect for themselves and/or others.
• People who have a problem with my gender, ethnic background, or the way I look.
• People who are not willing to set and follow boundaries and guidelines that all are comfortable with.
• People who have no regard for my safety or the safety of others.
• People who don't respect my husband (the man I love intensely and faithfully with all of my heart).

I definitely do not limit my friendships to people of a specific race, size, creed, orientation-- etc. I'm one of those "less shallow" people. *giggle*Don't get me wrong, I agree that everyone has a right to have preferences. To be perfectly honest, I have to admit that there have been some changes in my preferences since I was married in December of 2005. As far a play is concerned, it has been quite awhile since I have been tickled thoroughly by someone other than the highly skilled and talented "Alexwarfield". He's the only tickle partner that I need at this point, although fellow ticklelovers as friends are always welcomed.

Why Do I Love Tickling?

A guy once told me that part of the allure of tickling was the thought of having a woman's hands stroking all over his body. It may sound really weird to some, but for me, when it comes to the guy "I am really into" tickling me, I have to admit that I feel the same way!



I love tickling for so many reasons beyond the fact that it is fun, that it brings laughter and joy, and that it feels great too! To me it can also be an intimate practice, a way for someone to express affection. When my man, who I truly adore tickles me, I can't help but think of the closeness of it, the sweetness of it. I mean, it kind of makes me feel sexy in a way, because he finds my body, the sound of my laughter so irresistible that he can't stop. That is what makes me love tickling. The attraction, the affection, the sense of desire, the warm touch... WOW! How can anyone NOT be affected by all of that?

I can understand why some people can't stand being tickled. Some ticklish spots even on me are overwhelming, but I still can't resist it. Even if it lasts for just a second, this pleasant warmth begins to pulsate through my body. I start longing for just another touch.



Tickling can be a million light caresses softly teasing one's body, or it can be quick, intense and torturous forcing maniacal breathless laughter. It can be playful or sensual. But when I am being tickled by the man that I love...it doesn't matter. I love it! And... the arousing affect on me is just as strong.



I am fortunate enough to actually have someone who feels the same way about tickling as I do. And as much as I love tickling, I find day by day that it is a blessing that we love and share so many other things. This perfect love that I've been dreaming of for so long is no longer a dream. Now my fantasy has turned into sweet reality. He is so wonderful to me, and everyday (no lie) I have to thank God that we found each other. (Doesn't that make you want to just go hug someone?)

When Did I Find Out That I Loved Tickling?

When I was younger I was always getting tickled by somebody. My uncle used to chase all of us around the house, and when he caught us he would attack our stomach and our sides. I remember about six of my cousins and me screaming on one twin bed. (How did we all fit?) We would get even louder when we saw him running through the door growling. We would laugh and laugh. My auntie used to do it too. Her big thing would be to tickle us until we said uncle, but then she wouldn't stop!



So because it was such a family game, I thought it was pretty normal. My little sister and I used to have these huge tickle fights that lasted for days. One of us would think we won, and then we would wake up to being tickled. It wasn't until I got to be about 11 that I realized I loved it more than everyone around me, but that hasn't changed anything. I still like it just as much, probably even more than when I was younger.

Where Am I Ticklish and More?

Teeheeheehee! That's for me to know and for YOU to find out! Don't be easy on me either! Let me warn you though... I am a lee (someone who loves being tickled = ticklee) and a ler (someone who loves to tickle = tickler), so I can give just as good as I can get!!!

In Conclusion

I have already met some really cool people into tickling, and it does feel good just to have someone to talk to who feels the same way we do. And FINALLY, I have met the man of my dreams, and we are married, happy, and very much in love.

ISN'T HE SEXY!

So whatever your kink, or your joy, or whatever you are into, there is happiness out there for you somewhere. Without a doubt, I do absolutely love tickling; and hopefully this little page has explained to you the how's and the why's.

Live, Laugh and Tickle

SunriseTicklee

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